Family Motivation.- Paragraph#2

Since the fetus heart starts beating in the belly of a woman, the mother and father face a new challenge. That challenge is center in giving the necessary attention to that new life. Every kid is like a sponge, they absorb every single detail and emotion that they see, feel and hear from others. The parent’s role in supporting their children is essential, Marc Bornstein, in Handbook of Parenting, noted that… “Mothers of first-borns engage with, respond to, stimulate, talk to, and express positive affection for their babies more than mothers of later-born, even when there are no differences in first- and later-born behavior”. That’s why is important to communicate with your child since they are inside the belly, because that’s when the first interactions between parent and child become significant. This communication and support can sometimes be affected by monetary stability, emotional stability and relation between parents. A study stated the affect emotional and physically parents’ divorce has on their children, some clinicians assert that young people are disturbed even many years after a divorce, (Laumann-Billings, Lisa, and Robert E. Emery. "Distress among young adults from divorced families." Journal of Family Psychology 14.4 (2000): 671-687. PsycARTICLES. EBSCO. Web. 1 Feb. 2010). I believe that every parent should try their best to hold on to their vote in staying together, because if they do so, their children will develop better in every aspect of their life. Even when they are struggling to support their family monetary, they should always focus their attention in letting the child know that is necessary in life to expand your communication, spiritual and relations abilities. Also keeping a moderate balance in every of those aspect is crucial, if a parent only lives to work, but don’t work to live, they will be setting the wrong representation to their family. That’s why parents should set the example first, because that way the child can captivate those important aspects and therefore influence the family too.